It’s all love for Mary J. Blige as she is set to leave all that bitterness behind. The singer who was hurt following a failed marriage confirms that it’s all in the past now. In a recent interview, the songwriter engaged the interviewer regarding her resolve, post-divorce. She also talked about finding a new love, living her best life, and plans to take fans on a tour. Indeed, the R&B singer is currently at a happy point in her life.
Mary J. Blige’s Rocky Divorce
Mary J. Blige said “I do” to Kendu Isaacs in 2003. But after about thirteen years of marital bliss, the singer made a shocking announcement. She filed for divorce citing irreconcilable differences. On top of that, she claimed that Isaacs had been unfaithful and had made reckless financial decisions. But it was not an easy period as the pair were caught up in a bitter divorce battle. After they split in 2016, it took about two years to finally divorce. They also battled out a spousal support case and she was ordered to pay about $30k to her ex-partner temporarily.
Mary J. Blige On Her Love Life Post Divorce
At 53, Mary J Blige has decided to look away from the struggles of her past. According to her, going on to forgive any wrongdoings is a method of self-care. During her time with Sherri, she explained that letting go was not debatable for her.
In her words:
“What I learned is that forgiveness was for me. To hell with them. I don’t like that ugly, bitter feeling—that’s not mine, that belongs to you. You did what you did, but I have to move on. In order for me to feel good and manifest all the good things in my life, I have to let you go… for me.”
While practicing intentional self-care, Blige has chosen to give in to love. Regardless of her experience, the rapper revealed that she has found peace in a new romance. But this would not have been possible if she lacked self confidence. She resounded that her consciousness to self-embrace makes her feel good mostly.
This is not ruling out the fact that being with someone could be a total waste of time. But according to Mary J. Blige, being truly happy begins with a person’s mind-set. Amid her admittance to feeling tired, the singer is focused on continuing her journey. Talking about when she will retire, it may not be anytime soon.
What The Future Holds For The Singer
By taking up the decision to forgive, she has opened herself to a more productive future. Mary J. Blige is already working towards putting out her tour next year. Via Instagram, she assured fans of something bigger and better.
According to an Instagram post, the singer is set to go on tour with Ne Yo and Mario come January 2025. Following the caption on the post, the celebrity stated that it was time to show gratitude to her fans. So she thought about the tour with the other artists.
Final Note
Mary J Blige is in a good place, emotionally, and physically. This has boosted her confidence and fostered creativity and a better life generally. Blige’s case reveals that your mind is your power, guard it jealously. At age 53, the Queen of Hip-Hop Soul shows no signs of hanging the towel.
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