A woman shared on Reddit that her husband spoiled their honeymoon by inviting his best friend and the friend’s wife. However, she had hoped for a solo romantic, special trip instead.
The woman posted that weeks before their wedding her husband suggested it would be
“fun”
for his best friend and his wife to join part of their honeymoon.
“I immediately told him that I wasn’t comfortable with the idea because I wanted this trip to be about us, but he kept bringing it up, saying it would make the trip ‘more exciting’ and less ‘boring,’ ”
the woman wrote in the r/AITAH Reddit channel.
“I stuck to my guns and thought I had made it clear that it wasn’t happening.”
When they arrived at their destination, she mentioned the other couple was waiting in the hotel’s lobby.
“My husband had secretly invited them anyway, saying it would be ‘no big deal’ and that we could still have our alone time,”
she added.
“But the entire trip turned into group dinners, shared activities, and zero intimacy… I barely got any time with just him, and when I brought it up, he acted like I was overreacting. He said we could go on a ‘private vacation’ another time, and that I should be grateful we got to travel at all,”
she continued.
When the newly married couple returned home, she told her husband,
“he ruined what was supposed to be our special honeymoon. He just shrugged and said I was making it a bigger deal than it was, and that “we’ll have plenty of other trips.”
She later confessed,
“I can’t shake the disappointment, though, and he still doesn’t seem to get why I’m upset.”
#Clique, was her husband wrong for this? Comment your thoughts below
