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  • Must-Ask Questions For Online Lovers Before Meeting

    Must-Ask Questions For Online Lovers Before Meeting

    Love can be found in offices, train stations, malls, or even on the internet. While online dating tops the list of places to find your Mr. Perfect or Mrs. Right, it is noteworthy to be aware of its dangers.

    Internet love is commonly referred to as a long-distance relationship, and those involved get familiar with each other through texting or talking before meeting in person. One dominant problem is that sometimes, people are not who they claim to be.

    For some couples, meeting in person solidifies their love, while for others, it is the opposite, as they realize that they are not compatible after their first physical date.

    Five Must-Ask Questions That Can Protect You From Shock Before Meeting

    What is your pet peeve?

    Everyone has that one thing that bothers them, but sometimes, they can be unwilling to share it due to embarrassment. Once you can get your internet lover to open up about this, you are good to go!

    What is your idea of a family weekend?

    Whether or not you plan on getting married, knowing the person’s family values and background is essential. This is always a great way to start the conversation.

    Are you an indoor or outdoor person?

    Wouldn’t it be nice to know if the person you have been conversing with for weeks is socially awkward or an extrovert who delights in spending time outdoors doing fun things?

    What adventures are on your bucket list?

    Visiting places of rich cultural heritage and history like Egypt and Greece or engaging in activities like hiking, taking a motorcycle ride, or anything you consider adventurous should be part of this list. But if he or she is a little less adventurous and you cannot deal with it, it might be best to end the romance before your first meeting.

    Could you tell me about your favourite movie character and movie?

    Leonardo DiCaprio and Titanic must appear on the list, especially if he or she intends to prove their passion for falling in love. Just kidding! Their answer could influence your next move, so take it seriously!

    These are not the only questions on the list, but they are the top must-ask questions that are helpful for online lovers looking to meet!

  • Appropriate Words and Questions for Second Dates

    Appropriate Words and Questions for Second Dates

    Now that you have made it through the first date and are willing to honour the second date, you can be assured that you genuinely like this person. What’s more? Would you possibly see a future with this lady or guy but rather take things slow and get to know them better? Well, that is not wrong to think about, especially if you are all out to find love.

    Second dates can get tricky as you would not want to repeat the same first-time questions and sound like a broken record, and neither would you prefer being too forward. Below are vital ingredients that can help you on your second date,

    Refer to the first date and discuss your routine after the initial meeting

    Your listener will be intrigued to know how you interpreted your first meeting. Talking about it will be like a review of things, and where he or she needs to clear the air, they can do so. Additionally, speaking about the events that followed and your schedule after the first date is an exciting way to keep the excitement in what might be a fresh romance.

    Reveal plans for a third date

    Once you get comfortable enough and are confident in what the future holds for both of you, be forward about a third date. This time, you can make things more intimate by suggesting to have it at home. Friends and family can also meet your date.

    Never forget the compliments.

    It could be a gesture to the waitress, her hair, his perfume, or even her glasses. A compliment on the second date leaves a long-lasting impression.

    Find out what they think about the second date

    Find out if it was a pleasing idea for them to come out and meet you. Here, there is also a review of the first date and a discussion about the future.

    Be concerned enough to know their allergies

    Is there anything they should not eat? That simple yet thoughtful question puts you in a good light.

  • Should the Relationship End Because of an Affair?

    Should the Relationship End Because of an Affair?

    Having an affair in a relationship mostly leads to couples’ separation, and lack of communication is the leading cause. The signs must have been lurking around before people cheat or have an external affair. But then, they fail to address the situation until it silently balloons into something bigger.

    Next, they resort to an affair to fill that gap until they are caught in the act. The painful part is when the unsuspecting partner finally gets to fix the puzzle. It leaves them with a tidal wave of emotion, which makes them fearful, anxious, and hypervigilant, wondering where they got it all wrong.

    Now, the relationship faces the challenge of either forging ahead or ending. The responsibility now lies on the innocent partner to forgive the cheating, which is not easy. Is it possible to recover from an affair? This answer primarily depends on the couple, especially the betrayed party.

    There are two things involved when forgiving a cheating partner, and they include:

    1. It’s possible that they go back to having an affair again. This can be a big blow to the other party.
    2. On the flip side, if they can forgive each other and put the situation behind them, the relationship will bounce back more robust than it was.

    Importantly, such couples must note that healing from such blows takes time. Some people never get to recover at all. So, if you are sure that you can forgive your partner for having an affair and live with it, then by all means, go for it.

    However, if you find out you can’t, it’s best to end the relationship. But before you do so, you may need to seek professional assistance from a therapist to enable you to arrive at the best decision for YOU.

  • Sharing Expenses With Your Partner

    Sharing Expenses With Your Partner

    Relationship is beautiful with all the lovey-dovey stuff and PDA here and there. It is also a way in which two people are connected with love. However, leaving out infidelity, one factor — Finances/Expenses, tends to cause serious problems among couples.

    From the beginning of the relationship, it is typical that the man should pay for the first date in most cultures. But what happens after the first, second, third, tenth etc. People have different perspectives to life, and that is why finances/ expenses can be a difficult topic for couples, mostly the ones about to move in together.

    Hence, the importance of straightening out finance-related issues in a relationship, especially how to share or split expenses. Having such discussions will help you understand your partner’s financial behavior and concept, so you guys can get on the same page.

    According to Mind Money Balance, there are ways to split expenses with your partner, and they include:

    The 50/50 Method

    Going the equal halves route is a welcome idea for some couples. This method involves partners calculating the total expenses they incur monthly or over a period of time, and split the bills equally. This way, there are no arguments about anybody owing the other person. However, this method works best for couples that are within the same pay grade.

    Income-Driven Method

    This method is the opposite of the aforestated one. In this method, the couples split their expenses based on what each person earns. If one party’s income is higher than the other, they may have to agree on an unequal splitting percentage like 60% to 40% or 54% to 46%.

    The key thing about splitting expenses between couples is communication. It is essential to talk about vital topics like this because it helps partners to get on the same page. Financial compatibility is a thing; so, it is better to settle such issues in the relationship early enough.

  • Former Skye Bank Chairman TUNDE AYENI In Paternity War With Baby Mother. Wife Come To His Defense

    Former Skye Bank Chairman TUNDE AYENI In Paternity War With Baby Mother. Wife Come To His Defense

    According to THISDAY NEWSPAPER, Mr Ayeni confirmed in a statement that he was in a relationship with Ms Alagwu that ended in 2019.

    Nigerian businessman and former Skye Bank chairman Tunde Ayeni tussles paternity war with Ms Adaobi Alagwu a former classmate of his daughter. Abiola Ayene, the wife of the businessman has revealed that God told her about her husband’s alleged mistress.
    Adressing the ongoing scandal making its rounds on the internet, his wife and mother of his three children said God gave her a revelation. Mrs Ayeni said

    “Truth be told, the first thing I did when I heard the news was to check with God if indeed he would fold his arms and let anyone destroy a home he used his hands to build and guard jealously for 31 years and he told me that her claim is untrue and I should disregard it, In the end the truth shall prevail”.

    Mrs Ayeni further said she is not surprised the so called girl is parading herself to be who she is not, citing that by doing so, it is evident that she is a desperate gold digger and a slut who thinks she can become Mrs Ayeni by merely pinning a child on her highest paying victim. She also stated that Ms Adaobi has been warned through her lawyer to desist from parading herself as Mrs Ayeni because she is not and she will never be as the Lord lives.
    Mrs Ayeni is the founder of Divine Endowments, a leading fashion outlet in the United Kingdom and the U.S.
    She met her husband in Law school and was called to the Nigerian bar in 1991.

    #Clique what are your thoughts on this?